The First Boy/Girl Friend

The First Boy/Girl Friend

The first boy/girl friend is someone who turns us as a mature teenager according to my experience. Readers if you are teenagers like me; you will quite understand why I am stating this as u read on.

During our first relationship with the opposite sex, it is the first time we actually do things that will make the other person happy. We adjust according to them which we don’t often do for others. We quite understand how girls are or how boys are and how they need to be handled. Girls understand that there are guys who are sensitive and boys understand that there are girls who are quite strong and are full of guts. It is only during the first relationship that the other person shows you where you are wrong by arguing for small mistakes that you make. I understand that these arguments lead to the end of the relationship, but if you sit down and think with a clear mind, you will understand that, in real the other person has taught you a lot of stuff by showing you how you are which no one else does(except our mother though!).

Now going on to my experience, I was quite a stubborn kid as I grew up. During my first relationship I realized a lot of things about me. I might as well say my first relationship changed my whole life, and I am not kidding. The girl I went out with argued a lot. If I call myself stubborn you got to see her. She was like crazy at times. Yet I owe thanks to her for changing me as a person (if you get to read this, Thank you!).

The first relationship also helps you reduce your mistakes during the next coming relationships. As we learn from every mistake we make, we tend to be careful in other aspects of our life too.