Thursday, 24 December 2015

The First Crush

The First Crush

Well, do I have to say anything about this phase? Because this is known to be the best phase of a teen’s life. The first crush is on any day never forgotten by any teenager. Let me tell you my experience. It was the first day of my 8th grade. I stepped into my class as everyone was greeting each other after a long break. And then was when my heart started pumping at quite a fast pace. There she was, the girl I immediately fell in love (the first crush) with. I didn’t know what to do. I just couldn’t stop blushing every time I saw her. This happens in most cases where the teen’s of this generation fail. The reason we can’t stand in front of them of having the fear that we will do something to embarrass us. This fear has in fact stopped teenagers from telling their crush about how they feel.
Most teenagers prefer telling the guy/girl indirectly about their feelings. But it’s quite proven that these days confronting the other person and telling them about your feelings has been successful. My advice to the readers would be, “don’t forget the first crush as they have an important role in your life. That is when your hormones within you have started to function well. That is when you learn to be a adult. These feelings don’t come as you grow older. That tense feeling in your stomach that you feel when your crush passes by is not often as you become an adult.
I encountered a situation where I couldn’t stop myself from telling the girl I liked her but it turned out to be a funny experience for me. I have this odd problem of turning red. The same happened with me when I was standing opposite the girl and as I told her I liked her I turned red. This instead made her think I was cute. I was scared it will make me look awkward but it was an advantage. Sometimes we ought to consider our positive traits rather look for the negatives.

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