Hi Readers,
Been a while since I posted something. I have missed
writing. Been a tough time with life. Ups and downs like everyone goes through.
But the good news is, I have been kicked around before, and I have always come
back stronger, and this time is no different. I feel like a different, better
person. Thanks to maybe AR Rahman, for coming up with the song “Kun Faya Kun”
which has always made me relieved during my darkest days. Happy birthday
Maestro!
Today I am going to write about something that I did come
across recently. Texting your Crush.
The minute someone brings this topic, it hits us like a
nostalgia pill. Everyone by now must have had their first conversation with
their crush. If someone has not yet got the chance, hang in there, buddy.
Everyone has their day and you might just have it soon.
Texting your crush can have multiple effects on your life, because
it is like a black box, where you have no clue of what input you give, and what
the output might be. It can boost your confidence if it ends on a positive, or get
you to a phase of self loathe if it goes downhill. My first advice would be to
not send random desperate messages on Instagram or Facebook. If you do think, someone
is handsome/pretty, just say hi, introduce yourself and present yourself
through one message. Never say that you want someone to be their friend. And if
you are doing this to a total stranger, think twice before doing it, only
because, not everyone likes meeting strangers on social media, especially
strangers who blurt out stuff like ‘I want to be your friend’, or ‘I think I am
in love with you’. Type in your message and put yourself in their shoes and read
the same message, I know, sounds crazy, so don’t do it. It’s a tough world out
there. By doing this, you will seem like a lesser creep that someone might
think that you are (No offense)! I did get to text a junior of mine who used to
be my crush back in school. I didn’t have any idea of what she liked, what she
did, or where she was. I did see her around in school and would find any chance
of seeing her maybe in the corridor or out on the school ground. But never did
I get to talk to her, neither did she ever try (Clearly way out of my league),
so trust me, I have been there, and I have done that. But now, I have realised
there are no pick-up lines, just one, say Hi and introduce yourself. Everyone likes
a person with who they can have a conversation, and not just everything else
(pun intended). I somehow picked up the courage of texting her, getting to know
a little about her, and that way, a crush can slowly get serious. But unfortunately,
the more I got to know her, I realised that the feelings I had for her, were again
just an infatuation (Teenage hitting me hard!). I ended up just talking to her
every now and then, just saying hi and bye. But the bright side was, my first
conversation with a long-time crush went well.
I hope you guys don’t hesitate to talk to your crush, but
also at the same time, work on trying to look less scary! Kudos!
