Flirting
My
most important phase as a teenager was flirting. The flirting phase for me
started in my mid teens only because I was a total nerd until then. I didn’t really
know much about what flirting exactly was, but as a learning adolescent I was
curious. Trust me; the dictionary meaning of flirting is something you are not
going to like. Well, being an Indian, the Indian way of defining it would be to
say something to impress the opposite gender or maybe the same gender if that’s
what you are into. Flirting for me has been pretty boring because I believe in
real compliments; I don’t mind calling a person good looking if I really do
mean it. But here, it is really frowned upon to be someone who keeps
complimenting the other person. Having the label of a “flirt” is something you wouldn’t
want with your name. Teens, there is nothing wrong with healthy flirting, but I
would suggest, don’t shoot blanks because that is what makes the other person judgemental.
Flirting isn’t bad; it is just that people have changed their mindsets that
way. Don’t take lines from the internet, because all of them are outdated. Whatever
you need to say, make sure it is from the heart, and it won’t even seem like
you are trying to impress the other person. Look forward to your forthcoming ventures.
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