Hey Readers,
How are you doing? I am back with a very
interesting topic (for some of you!) that I believe you might want to read. Few
hours back, I spoke to a few people asking them how they would describe their
perfect boyfriend/girlfriend. I got many different answers. Some extremely
unique and some that most people look for. But one thing I noticed was everyone
wanted loyalty. Kudos to that!
This experiment that I conducted for my “Research”
was mainly to write this blog post. Now for anyone who is reading this, and I
did not ask them, please stop reading right here and think of a few points that
would contribute to your idea on the perfect girl/boyfriend. Go ahead. Do not
think for a second that you do not know the answer to that. Everyone wants a
partner in their life and you are not normal, if you cannot define what you
look for in a person you would eventually want to marry.
Okay, now that you have thought about those points,
let me tell you something. I am again dividing this into two group of readers.
One who have experience in their past with relationships and the other who
don’t (Fast forward to the next paragraph). For the ones who have had an
experience, when you were plotting your points for the Ideal Partner, you must
be thinking about someone in your head, when you said all those points. If you
were negatively impacted by the person in a relationship, hit them a text or a
call thanking them for making you realize what you wanted from your partner,
because they have practically helped you. And if you were positively impacted
by that person, and still they match the description you have, hit them a text
or call them, do not hesitate when I say this, because love is a feeling, but a
relationship does not work, unless you believe that they are right for you. If
even for a second you thought of this person when you were describing your
ideal partner, hold on to them. Do not let them go. Once bitten, twice shy.
For the readers, who do not have any experience in
their past with relationship, you have set goals about what you look for in a
person. Yes, I am calling them goals, because it is not easy to find love, not
in the way our life works right now. But my recommendation would be to find
someone who not only matches these points, but also someone who you genuinely
believe is right for you. Chase the relationship, not the spark, because the
spark is short lived, and you are left with the relationship. But if you chase
the relationship, the spark can be kindled anytime you want. A lot of people
make the grave mistake of chasing the spark and ultimately falling in a trap
called their so-called relationship. You have your list of wants prepared. Just
make sure, when you do meet someone who checks at least 90% of your list, you
are going to try hard to make it work. This isn’t the movies, where the world
unites you. You live in a country where it isn’t easy to maintain a
relationship. So, try hard and don’t let go easy, because that is what
counts.
And there is more from where that came from. Stay tuned Folks :)
And there is more from where that came from. Stay tuned Folks :)
