Choosing a Career Path

Choosing A Career Path

One of the biggest problems for teenagers is to choose a career path. I know a lot of teenagers have a career in mind, but trust 90% teenagers do not follow the path they had in mind. I grew up wanting to be a chef, yeah I know it sounds different but I am proud of it. But sadly I didn't pursue it. Why? Well, because of the given few reasons,
1. Peer Pressure of Not Screwing Up with a bad decision.
2. Society manipulations.
3. Having a role model in a different field.
I don't regret choosing the path I am on now. But there have been days when I feel like I would have done better being in hotel management. Teens out there, it is pretty simple that we don't always get what we want. But I have seen people taking bad decisions and taking bad career paths, but they make the best out of it. That is because we have to live with what we chose. We can never blame someone else for what we chose. We are not robots who can say that they were controlled by their master. Some of us might say that our parents are to blame, but I do not count that in too. Parents ultimately are on our side, if we know what we are choosing. I am not encouraging teens to choose very stupid paths and ruin your lives but choose sensibly and be happy in field that you are. And you will ultimate love being in it. It will bring the best out in you.

How Important is Family?

Family

Family for me has come down to the sixth phase, because although family plays a vital role during teenage, it does not affect us that much when compared to the hormones that attack us during teenage. But, here goes. Not all teenagers have a good rapport with their parents. My parents are pretty cool about being in a relationship, but they advice me not to day dream about getting married and having kids and stuff. It’s nice when your mom or your dad turns into your friend. I know that most of you readers would have it that way. But certain teens go through hell with their homes. I honestly believe that there isn’t anything in the world that cannot be talked through. Parents are just scared that their kids would do something wrong. They need to be assured that you are going to be fine and all they need to do is trust you. To the guys, all I can say is, parents are only worried that you won’t do anything in life, show them once that they can trust you and you will see the change yourself. To the girls, it is not advisable to be thinking that your parents don’t love you, or expects you to sit at home doing nothing. I know that girls have to go through a lot given the situation of what the society thinks. Well, to hell with the society. Tell your parents, that you are only concerned about what your parents think about you and not the society. Tell them that you are mature enough to know what you are doing and that they should learn to trust you with your decision. It is not bad for parents to be protective of their kids, but once in a while, they need to understand what you are going through too. Don’t hide things from your parents. Instead, try talking to them about it and see how it helps them trust you.